A blind thought!

Last evening I went to the city with my friends to roam around and have fun...Pune city is about 20-22km from my place so we take a bus that’s takes about half an hour and with the traffic in pune takes about 45 min to reach pune... As we boarded the bus we were chattering around, laughing and giggling...
I couldn’t help notice a couple seated next to where I was standing... Their child who was about 10 years old was crying for some toy or something... I didn’t see them very properly at first but suddenly the woman turned around to ask the person behind her if it was her stop... She was blind...He replied positive and she nudged her husband to get down...He was blind too...I tried to move ahead so I could help the family get down the bus... But to my utter wonderment I saw their child, who was crying till that moment behaving like any normal kid, wipe his tears...he held his mother's hand and she in turn held her husband's hand...Then the kid waited for the bus to halt and helped his parents get down...Tears filled my eyes when I saw such a mature and wonderful behavior by the kid...

We are so lucky God has given us everything, we are physically perfect, mentally stable, educated, and financially sound yet we crib that life has been unfair to us... There are so many people who are physically challenged, mentally unstable and major population of our country is below the poverty line...They don’t understand branded jeans, they don’t crazily watch Tom Cruise’s movies...They have accepted life as it has come and they enjoy it to their fullest extent... just like the blind couple in the bus...They cannot see any color but still that does not make them feel sad. They know colors exist and they have started loving black as their favorite color...They don’t crib any more coz they are doing complete justice to their lives...

So next time u see a blind person realize that he has a better grip on life than u can ever have...

Life is like that!!!

Merry Christmas!!!

Christmas Eve is here and suddenly even the busiest person seems to spare some time for his family, shopping and buying gifts for all his loved ones… Christmas carols are being sung everywhere, suddenly it seems life has taken a very beautiful meaning…
Confessing our mistakes, trying to rectify them and asking forgiveness from the great
Lord so we could learn life in a better manner…The wine, the cake, the yummy food, new clothes and goodies and huh! Is that all Christmas about!!!
Surprisingly it is not….

Christmas depicts the birth of Lord Jesus Christ; it marks the dawn of hope and happiness at a time of ignorance and despair… It is the rise of truth and marks the end of ignorance,
Darkness, selfishness and pain…
Christmas reminds of the birth of a person who bore the burden of our sins so that
We could live a better and peaceful life. He cried in pain so we could smile and be happy… It is said that when Christ was about to die the sky was overcast with dark clouds and it seemed like the sun was lost somewhere… The clouds are misunderstood as God’s grief... No it was not His grief it was our sin that Christ was carrying with him..He
Suffered so we could live peacefully… He cried tears of blood so we could sleep happily...
Now after knowing the truth think for a second are we doing justice to one man who lived with us, preached for our betterment and sacrificed His life carrying our burden so we could live happily… Do we pay any heed to his preaching…? No here we are killing our own brothers for money.. Fighting, screaming and hating one another… Abandoning
Our own parents when they need us the most.. All we can think about is how I can become the wealthiest person in the universe… Jesus’ preaching seems long way gone.. But no, we definitely mutter some words in the morning not knowing what it means thinking about the work that is to be done the following day…
Christmas is not just about Santa and gifts and goodies... It is about spreading the message of love of a person who was born like us, lived like us and died for us... No doubt he finally reached the Kingdom Of God… No doubt he was called the Son of the Lord...
It is very easy to be a true human and a true Christian just follow the religion of humanity
And spread the Gospel of Love...

The deaf ,dumb and blind....

It seems odd but there was a time when writing was my life i couldnt stay without scribbling in my diary and now i am writing after such a looooonnng time! Newayz, life has its own mysterious ways... My exams are starting up from day after tomm......
Sometimes i feel how hyprocritic can we be..Trust me we dont mean to be so but eventually we end up being the same... LAst night i was so enraged with an incident and trust me ur gonna be terribly upset too....
A friend of mine was returning home after a tired day at office... While clinging tightly to the support rod in the bus she felt someone touch her... She dint understand and just ignored it. Then a second time she again felt a touch...She turned back and saw a man in his late 40's glaring at her..He smiled in a lewd manner and winked at her...She slappped him right in front of everyone in the bus and to her dismay the guy hit her backa dn in fact startedhiting her..My poor friend couldnt escape from his tight clutches...She crieds out for help and there was nobody in the bus who came to rescue... In fact imagine her plight when the conductor comes and says that i am not responsible for whatever happens here....
And we talk about women liberation and all such craps... Y dont we just name ourseleves Educated fools!!!!
This is not teh first time this is happening....Even when the case of the young girl being raped in the train came none of the people offered o voluneer.TEHy were mute and watching mayb waiting for "DIVINE INTERVENTION"...
And we call ourseleves responsible citizens... IF the guy who assaulted my friend was wrong then the people who were watching the drama were equivalently responsible....

It is a disgrace to be a human if this is what humans are supposed to be..>If this is what human life is then i prefer to be born an animal.... Where are we moving towards..JUst give it a athought, today it was my freind...tommm it could be ur sister,mother or probably u urself...So next time somehing happens...use the senses God has given u and do something....

Solitude: A heaven in itself!!!!

We meet hundreds of people in our life...Some Good, some bad! Some become so close that they become a part of ur life...Some leave bruises in ur heart while others touch the rhythm in ur heart...We also meet lot of people who claim that they know us very well...
But to what extent does someone actually understand u...Have we ever thought about this...
I believe nobody can know and judge u better than ur ownself...
U know ur weaknesses ur strengths, ur deepest fears and ur wildest dreams... it is another issue that we close our eyes to lot of issues..
We have fun with lot of people, laugh out, freak, but have we ever sat in silence and analysed what we are and we are tending to move towards... When we were young our goal was to score the first rank... As we grew our goals shifted more towards becoming an engineer or Doctor, doing our Pg, going abroad, eaning money, enjoying life but where is the end as we reach our end we wud probabaly dream our future secured with our kids and grandkids...and then eventually perish one day...So all our life we have had shifted goals...We have spent our time thinking and fulfilling all these temporary goals... But there was no time to think of that one person who kept waiting for us to look upto HIM and sy once "Thanks"...
Thats so selfish and we claim to have lived a good life..
i am not saying that these temporary goals are not important..It is important but realising that they are temporary is even more impotant...
So take time out of ur busy schedule and just for a millisecond out of ur 24 hrs. acknowledge and thank the person who is responsible for ur life...

To be or not to be friends!!!

"U tell me ur friends and i will tell u how u are"...

It is generally so easy for us catogerize and analyze people with the kind of friends they have!!! Friendship we say is the purest of all relations coz irrespective of who the person is,caste,creed,gender,no matter which religion he belongs to,financial background etc.. we become friends and promise to take care and be for each other throughout our life time..imagine when such friends whose bonds go stronger than family turn foes...
I came to Pune with a world of imaginations..And now i am going back with a strong conviction that the world of dreams and imaginations and the practical world are entirely different ...Friends today are only people who are little more than strangers...With whom u could talk for a while as long as u are not wasting their time and also one of the basic criteria to be friends is:: U got to be of some use to the other person!!"
I have had a really bad experience with friends here and i have actually sweared " no more friendships for me" i would rather live alone than have such selfish people as my friends...
It really hurts when u get to know from a third person that ur friend has spoken about u...But it hurts more when u actually hear it urself!!! That is the condition i found myself this morning....
It is not always that i let people affect my life but after what happened this morning, I never shall trust in friendship again...
As if that was not enough she came down to my room and gave me a sarcastic lecture on no fault of mine...The kind of person i am i never bothered to reply back to whatever she was accusing me of! Eventually she left stating that "i want my friends to tune their lives according to mine...."I thanked my stars fior showing me this day!!!
Better late than never!!
It was a gud lesson that i learnt there is nobody on earth u can trust...It is only ur family who is always by ur side...Ur parents and nobody else can be ur best friends!!! And anybody else who claims to be so is entirely lying!!!

Someone is the world,

To the world u may be one amongst many,

but for someone u are the only one...

To the world u may be one of the best

but for someone u are the best...

To the world u may be one of the many diamonds

but for someone ur the only diamond...

To the world u may be one of the sources of joy,

but for someone u are the only source of happiness..

To the world ur tears maybe one drop in the ocean,

but for someone they are the ocean,

to the world u maybe someone,

but for someone

U are the world...

Girls never change!!!

The gita says that change is the rule of nature..Anything and everything has to undergo change...Where human or emotions...Change is very much a part of life..But Krishna probably dint realize that there is one thing that can never change..
Gossiping girls!!

Sometimes its fun to gossip around on every small issue like the new film or the new actress but there needs to be some safe zone...When things go personal thins can actually go wrong... Old friends break apart,people lose their images...
It is very ridiculous to affect someone's persona for personal fun...I am not saying that I never gossip but there needs to be some restriction..Some restrictions are to be self-imposed we are not kids to be told again and again as to what is to be done and what is not..After all every one needs to inculcate personal discipline..
So any girl who is reading this please do remember that next time u gossip do not affect others..Someday u will fall prey to ur own net...

India: The heaven of festival

It is not even 2 weeks dince the Ganesh Festivel has ended,the mandaps are still put...The festival fever has started all over again..This time it is the fav festival of all the Navratri..The dandiya and Garba classes have started and in the evenings u can actually hear to lovely gujrati folk songs...This time Punekars have decided to go the Bong way..>As u drive across the mumbai pune highway u can find Durga ma idols....
These festivals this time have a very beautiful theme...Most of them really spread the kind of social messages that are really the need of the day...some include the Tsunami,saving resources,prevention and hazards of frugs,smoking and drinking etc..And all this is done by youths like u and me...Feels gr8 to see that the future of the country is in safe hands..
Seems like it is all fun time again...I am really looking forward to Navratri this time...Especially since i have learnt the raas garba..I am gonna have a gr8 time here and hope u have so too....

bye..

Hello

Hi it s raining cats and dogs here in Pune...Although i enjoyed a lot getting drenched in the rain, having hot chai at the tapri's,having hot pakodas, and bunking coll, but now this is really irritating...the other day i was on my way to the company for a technical interview i never made it as i was completely drenched and totally not in a position to attend my interview...Accidents have also increased... Every other day there is a sad story of a family losing someone... looks like nature has finally decided to show her fury after all she has been quiet for a long while we have completely taken advantage...This was definitely not a gud year for India...With the Tsunami and now the rains,Things are not going gud...Anywayz lets not exploit the nature anymore this is going to create a problem for us only....

hello people

hi everyone,
how is life dudeo!!! I am having a great time here...This being my final year we are all having a blast time...A mixed feeling of excitement to face the world and a very tough time accepting that people who were ur life for the past 4 years are only gonna be a faded dream except for some phone calls and mails....

newayz life is like that...Do visit me and leave me ur precious comments ..
byeeeee...

Fame: A devil in disguise!!

Hi,
I am sorry I could not blog for a long while my exams (theory) are starting from the 31st of this month and so like all good engineers I am supposed to be deeply buried in my books! U know what sometimes fame could be "boring,dangerous and irritating"

A few days ago when my practical exams were going on,the external examiner who was(I don't know why) so pleased with me tat he went on in front the entire batch and all other internal examiners that "this girl is one of the best students we can ever have!....." I was so shocked that I couldn't even react!It is weeks to this now. But whenever I meet any of my classmates on the road they start of with," what happened and what exactly did u do that the external was so impressed!" .My lecturers think and behave as if I am a very intelligent kid and I am gonna top the university! Strange but I am bored with this so called "fame".I want people to let me be what I am.
This is absolutely ridiculous why dont people just live and let live!!!!!

Hardwork : never hardly working but always working!!!

Hey people,

If i was asked to name the the most terrifying day in my life i would really enumerate this day. i had a viva on the most interesting subject that a comp engg could ever learn Hardware lab(I see lot of eyebrows raising but chill guys!). Anywayz, the subject is a terror tomost of the students in my class and people generally say that if u can score this paper the ur a genius! My external who came for the orals was none other than the chairman of this subject at pune university!
He is supposed to be a very strict guy and has a record of failing students!

Obviously i was shivering right since yest! But neverthless i had worked hard and had made it a point to cover up my course(atleast whatever was expected!). The most intelligent students were found crying and dejected yest coz the external put forth questions in such a manner that it was very confusing and students couldnt answer. plus he went on to the extent of personally abusing when u dont answer! When students wud finally answer he would confuse them with their answers! Being a very sensitive person i was dead scared as to wat wud happen! This morning before starting i just prayed that let me get the credit for my hardwork .

MY prayers were truely answered as i went for the vivas the guys fired me with questions for almost 20 minutes,and i answered each one of them! There was one more female with me who was the topper of my class but the poor thing was so terrified that she couldnt answer anythg; eventually when i finished the guy looked at me with soft eyes and silently whispered "Good" with a nod!

i cud have died of happiness at that time!
Truely as my dear cousin wud put it when u do ur best oppurtunity knocks at ur door!

So guys the next time u prepare for ur exam dont worry as to wat the results wud be but just do ur best

Sincerity::Is it a lost word!!

Hi people
Life's pretty cool; My exam yest was pretty cool thx to your prayers.Yesterday as i was completely engrossed in doin my prog, for a moment i was wondering if i was gonna enter the monitor;anywayz i couldnt help noticing a few "sincere" friends of mine slowly removing the most boring and irritating media of our times "The floppy" and without the notice of anyone copying their problem from it.
But they couldnt escape my eyes and when they saw me noticing them, they obviously offered me too. But i bluntly refused saying ,I would rather fail ,than resort to such means. Although the external examiner and internal appreciated my program i couldnt help feeling angry when they did theirs too, it was as if an insult to all those people who actually worked hard and honestly.
After the examination i was confronted by one of my able and "sincere" friends saying in a race the way u take up doesnt matter it is finally the destination that matters. The examiners are least bothered as to how much hardwork u have put in but what matters is ur output, at the end of the day "ur program should work".
But i defended myself saying that above everything forget the fact of the output or the program or even the vivas what matters is the internal satisfaction of achieving something. Even though an examination is like a small issue, the smile which comes to ur face when ur program gives valid output and the self-confidence it boosts is what matters at the end of the day. Your heart gives out a silent squeak saying 'i did it!" and says a silent prayer thanking the almighty for helping you and honouring ur hardwork! At the end of the day u sleep with a clear conscience !
It is very sad that educated and able people have such cynical thoughts and there is no one to correct them. They forget for a while that even though the examiners arent watching far above someone is watching and entering these acts of yours. Forget the punishments but not for once should u hurt the creater after all whatever u r today is all becoz of Him.
The arguement with my friend continued almost for an hour and at the end of the day i wasnt able to convince him but deep down, even his heart and conscience would have said "i agree"

ITS EXAM TIME BABY

hi guys,
Its again the time of the year; Long nights with tea seeming to be heavenly the time to forget laughter time to forget and completely eradicate the word sleep from our dictionaries(This one thing is like hell) and time to forget about all the latest movies at Inox. Time to dig into heaps of books and learn what harvard and Von Nueman had to say (No offences!). Its the time to Study! I have my exam on assembly language coding tomorrow. And i am so worked that i am actually talking in hex's and bytes. Not that i dont like this paper, I actually love it but as they say an overdose of everything is bad!! As time ticks i get more and more worried! So thought why not chill up with my whacky friends online! What say! Anywayz i read a very interesting blog from my cousin which gave me a very beautiful message that u dont have to run behind ur goals it would rather come and knock at ur door if u have
done ur part! u do ur best and leave the rest to the person far above he knows what is good and what is bad and he knows what to do! So guys juz work out ur best and leave the rest to our Divine father in heaven He cares and HE knows our efforts!
So waiting for tomorrow in fact very eagerly!

so wish me luck i will meet ya tomm after my exams
and do pray for me!

luv nandy

IS THIS THE WORLD GOD CREATED

HIYA GUYS,
What i am gonna tell u right now is somethn that most of us never bother to think about.Never wonder why this is happening. A friend of mine (we'll refer as x) is a muslim.Not a big deal what difference does this make thats what we think. But thats not true.During the recent india-pak one day series the last odi was won by our dear old pak. So what does this imply well none more tahn poor performance by india. But some people jsut wont take it at this level. Eventually even my friend (just like all others) was upset taht india lost but it wasnt just taht. Some other friends of hers were out there and they actually went to the extent of telling her that "All muslims are -----" well the poor girl came to me and broke into tears. This is what she said "Why do we get singled out?We are as much a part of INDIA as u r then why do we get singled out..ONe of my sisters topper of her university didnt get a job in a very good company She had passed all the interviews and she was rejected only bcoz she was a muslim. Is it my fault that i am a muslim.Cant we live peacefully.Why is it such a big deal.I make lot of friends and they leave me when they get to know that i am a musim. Why? " i really didnt have any words to console her. I was jsut wondering if this is the behaviour of the so called *educated* people of india then what to say of the uneducated people. I was very deeply upset by this incident.My dear friends when the infinite mercy doesnt care whether u are a hindu or a muslim and still loves u for what u r then y do u create differences. Why try to do something which will disrupt ur harmony as well as others'. Even they have the same red blood as u have . Even they are children of GOD as u are then why fight. Religion should be given priority as a "path to reach GOD AND NOT THE LORD HIMSELF"
Does it matter that u read gita to achieve liberation and they read koran.
IS this the World God created! Come lets join hands and try to educate the educated.
LEt there be one religion called HUMANITY and one language called LOVE AND PEACE.

TO BE OR NOT TO BE

Hi guys,
You know sometimes i feel i was wrong i should have never come to pune; never stayed away from home; why do stuff which is different why? i have always been known as a trend breaker; i guess had i not been an engineer i would have made a wonderful criminal; i have quite a good repo of being a "Good samaritan" .Gone are the times when if u lend an ear to someone's woes wasn't a big deal. today it is! if i try to help a friend then i am supposed to be vey gud coz out of my 24 hrs i spared a couple of min to hear someone whose talks arent gonna benifit me in any way. i dont know if this is right but all i know is when a call a person my friend i am there for them. no matter what i will stand with them. A very bad incident took place this morning it actually shook my beliefs whether i should really make friends. A very gud frnd of mine actually a roomie was having lot of problems and people were making life hell for her. And i was shocked to find out that it was my best friend who was doing this and my gang was suppoerting her. So in order to help my roomie i fought against all my best friends and finally now my roomie is very happy people respect her and make friends with her. And most importantly she walks on the road with her head high with dignity but on the other hand i lost my friends for a person whom i didnt know very well. some days ago i gotto know thru a comon frnd that this roomie of mine is happily spreading tales about me. Now that is what is called "life"
Anywayz i was so deeply upset that i had to share my feelings with someone so thanks guys and do remembr this b4 u go out of your way to help someone

HALLO PEOPLE

Life is very hectic these days !!! After 10 days of holidays which were supposed to be our "official time to attend an industrial tour"
we had to report back to college gain. Again the same old hectic schedule.
Loads of boring lectures but our creative "engineering" minds trying to find the most technical ways and"irritating" ways to shut down our lecturers without allowing them to reboot! sometimes i really wonder how can i format them!
Anywayz thats the reason why i couldnt come online.
Anywayz take care people.
And HAve lots of fun.
byeeeeeeee

HALLO PEOPLE

Life is very hectic these days !!! After 10 days of holidays which were supposed to be our "official time to attend an industrial tour"
we had to report back to college gain. Again the same old hectic schedule.
Loads of boring lectures but our creative "engineering" minds trying to find the most technical ways and"irritating" ways to shut down our lecturers without allowing them to reboot! sometimes i really wonder how can i format them!
Anywayz thats the reason why i couldnt come online.
Anywayz take care people.
And HAve lots of fun.
byeeeeeeee

hey dudes

hi i am nand (nandini )

student of engineering

studying at pune

AND MY MOTTO IN LIFE IS TO HAAAAAAVVVVVVVVEEEEEEE
LOTSSSSSSS OF FFFFFUUUUUUNNNNNNNN


SO U SEE DUDE ITS EASY U WANNA BE M GUEST A BASIC CRITERIA IS
LOVE UR LIFE AND HAVE LOTS OF FUN...

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