Solitude: A heaven in itself!!!!

We meet hundreds of people in our life...Some Good, some bad! Some become so close that they become a part of ur life...Some leave bruises in ur heart while others touch the rhythm in ur heart...We also meet lot of people who claim that they know us very well...
But to what extent does someone actually understand u...Have we ever thought about this...
I believe nobody can know and judge u better than ur ownself...
U know ur weaknesses ur strengths, ur deepest fears and ur wildest dreams... it is another issue that we close our eyes to lot of issues..
We have fun with lot of people, laugh out, freak, but have we ever sat in silence and analysed what we are and we are tending to move towards... When we were young our goal was to score the first rank... As we grew our goals shifted more towards becoming an engineer or Doctor, doing our Pg, going abroad, eaning money, enjoying life but where is the end as we reach our end we wud probabaly dream our future secured with our kids and grandkids...and then eventually perish one day...So all our life we have had shifted goals...We have spent our time thinking and fulfilling all these temporary goals... But there was no time to think of that one person who kept waiting for us to look upto HIM and sy once "Thanks"...
Thats so selfish and we claim to have lived a good life..
i am not saying that these temporary goals are not important..It is important but realising that they are temporary is even more impotant...
So take time out of ur busy schedule and just for a millisecond out of ur 24 hrs. acknowledge and thank the person who is responsible for ur life...

To be or not to be friends!!!

"U tell me ur friends and i will tell u how u are"...

It is generally so easy for us catogerize and analyze people with the kind of friends they have!!! Friendship we say is the purest of all relations coz irrespective of who the person is,caste,creed,gender,no matter which religion he belongs to,financial background etc.. we become friends and promise to take care and be for each other throughout our life time..imagine when such friends whose bonds go stronger than family turn foes...
I came to Pune with a world of imaginations..And now i am going back with a strong conviction that the world of dreams and imaginations and the practical world are entirely different ...Friends today are only people who are little more than strangers...With whom u could talk for a while as long as u are not wasting their time and also one of the basic criteria to be friends is:: U got to be of some use to the other person!!"
I have had a really bad experience with friends here and i have actually sweared " no more friendships for me" i would rather live alone than have such selfish people as my friends...
It really hurts when u get to know from a third person that ur friend has spoken about u...But it hurts more when u actually hear it urself!!! That is the condition i found myself this morning....
It is not always that i let people affect my life but after what happened this morning, I never shall trust in friendship again...
As if that was not enough she came down to my room and gave me a sarcastic lecture on no fault of mine...The kind of person i am i never bothered to reply back to whatever she was accusing me of! Eventually she left stating that "i want my friends to tune their lives according to mine...."I thanked my stars fior showing me this day!!!
Better late than never!!
It was a gud lesson that i learnt there is nobody on earth u can trust...It is only ur family who is always by ur side...Ur parents and nobody else can be ur best friends!!! And anybody else who claims to be so is entirely lying!!!

Someone is the world,

To the world u may be one amongst many,

but for someone u are the only one...

To the world u may be one of the best

but for someone u are the best...

To the world u may be one of the many diamonds

but for someone ur the only diamond...

To the world u may be one of the sources of joy,

but for someone u are the only source of happiness..

To the world ur tears maybe one drop in the ocean,

but for someone they are the ocean,

to the world u maybe someone,

but for someone

U are the world...

Girls never change!!!

The gita says that change is the rule of nature..Anything and everything has to undergo change...Where human or emotions...Change is very much a part of life..But Krishna probably dint realize that there is one thing that can never change..
Gossiping girls!!

Sometimes its fun to gossip around on every small issue like the new film or the new actress but there needs to be some safe zone...When things go personal thins can actually go wrong... Old friends break apart,people lose their images...
It is very ridiculous to affect someone's persona for personal fun...I am not saying that I never gossip but there needs to be some restriction..Some restrictions are to be self-imposed we are not kids to be told again and again as to what is to be done and what is not..After all every one needs to inculcate personal discipline..
So any girl who is reading this please do remember that next time u gossip do not affect others..Someday u will fall prey to ur own net...