The State of Happiness!

To be happy and cheerful is man's foremost wish and whatever we do, all our struggles & hardwork are channelised to a single goal and that is happiness! What exactly is happiness then, is it spending hours lazing around, is it roaming around in the best cars, having the best food and sleeping contentedly! Someday even this would cease giving us happiness! Happiness is a state of contentment and bliss.

But sometimes, in our hurry to reach our goal we make lot of mistakes, when we look back, we realise it is too late. To attain a temporary state of happiness we sometimes, end of accepting double the load of pains! After the joyous period ends, we are left in a pool of tears! So it is very important to discriminate our good and bad, to understand what is it that we want from life. What is it that makes us happy and will it be permanant or is for only a short time goal that we are running! For an addicted drunkard, driking makes him most happiest, for this temporary happiness, he finishes up all his resources, loans money and eventually, ends up in a big time mess, causing trouble to himself and his family!! This is what I mean by discriminating your happiness & goals. Mind should always be in a state of contentment, neither praise nor criticism should affect one!


So it very important to realise and recognise our responsiblities, life is a chance given to u once, in this chance never should u regret any decision taken or any time spent! Living life is the toughest management task, our human life is the best example of a management career and nature and time are our B-schools, they are the best teachers! It is upto us, to understand what our teachers tell us and implement it, else we are the losers!

The storms in Life!!

Life is a very balanced path, for everytear from your eye, you have a smile on your lips. It is a simple give and take relationship. You do good, you get good! As simple as that!!
Having a fight with someone else is very ok, you fight, a few argumets, a few heated moments and then when the tempo rises, one of them will leave the scene. And for the rest of our lives we vow never to look at that person again.

But what happens, when the fight is within your ownself, can we run away? So many times, we have to go contradictory to our principles, do things which we would never dream about and yet have to convince ourselves to be satisfied.

Sometimes, Life teaches you lessons with bitter pills, makes you do wrong things so you understand and never do it again! I used to always be very careful about my words and action, lest they hurt someone close to me. But imagine my plight, when I had to hurt someone very very close to my heart, for their own benifit! It sometimes becomes very difficult to maintain a serene and a peaceful face when there is a huge storm in your mind! I used to always feel that it was good t be emotional, atleast I feel like I have a human heart and not a cold stone! But what good is your emotions when you have to maintain a cold face and hurt the person you love a lot! Life is all not so fair suddenly!!!

The giver has already planned the game but these times of turbulences are the trying period to test whether your faith in Him shakes or is still firm.